Complementarian? Feminist? Patriarch?

During the summer I've had more time to peruse blogs, and  I've read some provocative discussions about roles of husbands and wives, about authority and sacrificial love. In the homeschool world, there's a good bit of questioning going on in the wake of some of the scandals associated with a couple of well-known leaders. Because they were jerks (really much worse than that, of course), does that mean everything they promoted was wrong?   

My pastor, Tim Bayly, has written a helpful post called "A dialog between a complementarian, a feminist, and a patriarch." If you wonder what these terms mean and which comes closest to describing the biblical pattern, check out his post here.